Scarleteen Article: Sp[ace] Exploration
Up this morning at Scarleteen: my newest post — on ace communities and why I, as a sexual person, heart them hard-core. Special shout-out to Ily at Asexy Beast for her seriously constructive feedback on an early draft and to Heather for, y’know, all of it. #snapsforIly #snapsforHeather
Asexuality saved my sex life.
No, seriously — I mean that. I will declare it from the middle of a courtroom, with one hand on Our Bodies, Ourselves. Asexuality, as much as sex-positive feminism and far more than any amount of “hon, you just need to get laid already,” helped me to access a confident, positive, and excited relationship with my sexual self.
This might seem counter-intuitive…